Friday, January 29, 2010

ima leave it on this note: ill firendship was good while it lasted we had some great times nd bad times nd some umforgetable moments budd simply we grew apart nd thats life gud luck on ur journey i pray god bless u along the way nd may all ur hopes nd dreams come tru may u fall in love nd reach all ur goal and beyond thanxs 4 being a important part of my journey in life budd i kno its time 4 us 2 create a new journey wit new ppl i must admit u helped me wit alot nd i will neva forget thanxs nd goodbye again ...(Tiny white)

Monday, January 25, 2010

THE POWEROF HER


NOW COMING TO A CITY NEAR YOU!!!!!!!

IN TO THICK


BY:KRISTENINK

ME PERSONALLY IM GONNA DO ME

Tip # 1

There is probably nothing that attracts a guy towards a girl more than her genuine self. Therefore, girls need to learn how to be confident of their looks and overall self-image.

Most importantly, girls must never try to pretend to be someone else just to try and impress a guy. After all, most guys can see through a girl if she's being genuine or not. And guys dislike their girls who try to wear another image since it reflects low self-esteem and insecurity.

Tip # 2
Appreciate a guy. As much as women spend time fixing herself or getting dressed, men also dedicate a substantial amount of time getting fixed.

Therefore, girls must try to be vocal about giving guys a compliment. You can either do it in a straightforward or playful manner. But still, knowing how to appreciate a man is one of the top 10 ways to attract a guy.

Tip # 3

In connection to the tip above, women must not try to overdo themselves when dressing up.

It is okay to take good care of your looks, but guys are turned off when women pay more attention to their looks than on their guy companion. As long as you're presentable and clean, guys are fine with that.

Tip # 4

Produce a positive vibe. When you are a happy person, it is easy to spread that happiness onto the people around you. And if you can do that to a guy, then he'd love to be around you more often.
Tip # 5
Laugh at his jokes. This might seem trivial, but having a sense of humor and learning how to laugh together is one of the foundations to building a relationship; hence, this is one of the top 10 ways to attract a guy.

It ensures that you both are able to appreciate the brighter side of life and take things lightly from time to time.
Tip # 6
Use flirting body language. Sometimes, your gestures tell more about your feelings and intentions than words. Therefore, learn how to effectively send signals to a guy that you find him attractive and want to get to know better.
Tip # 7
Make eye contact. Your eyes can say a lot. And exchanging meaningful glances are one of the most effective ways to lure a guy towards you.
Tip # 8
When you spot a guy you like at a party, try to get close to him. Aside from sending out the message that you are attracted, it also shows how comfortable you are about yourself.
Tip # 9

Develop a fun and vibrant personality. With a personality such as this, it is easy for you to stand out in a crowd and enable guys to notice you.
Tip # 10

Be interested in the guy. Despite all the physical attraction, you should show interest in getting to know more about him.

10ways to keEp a relationhip

1. Be kind. I'm writing this on a cruise ship and it's fascinating to watch people grouch at their spouses, then turn around and share a friendly smile with a stranger. We tend to take family and best friends for granted. A smile, a wink, just a moment of kindness goes a long way.







2. Be attentive. Paying attention to the details of life is important. Pick up your own trash, and pick up for each other. Put things away, help each other with the small projects around the house. These things are the currency of love.






3. Be gracious. Small surprises can create huge rewards in a relationship. I think of it as the "Martha Stewart Effect". Taking a moment to put on a clean shirt before dinner, or using the good china, or cutting a flower from the garden and putting it on the table, are examples. All these things add color, spice, and graciousness to our lives.






4. Be patient. We all have bad days. It happens. When it happens to your spouse, be smart! Take the kids to the park for an hour, order Chinese take-out for dinner. Give him/her a break! This is the reality of life. Allow for it.






5. Be honest. Tell the truth about your feelings, and do it promptly and in a respectful, effective way. Share your disappointments and fears, but also share dreams, hopes, and gratitudes. Keeping secrets kills passion.






6. Be funny! Life seems to have supply its own stress and worry, but we have to provide the humor on our own. Share a joke, take time to tickle each other or rent a funny movie, and do it often. The couple that laughs together, often does other fun stuff together, too!






7. Be flexible. Over a lifetime, people change. Hopefully, your relationship will change and grow and mature with as you change. One of you will change careers, the other will change religions. One will have an illness, the other will make a mistake. Relationships either bend and flex with the winds of life, or they break.






8. Be generous. I've saved the best for last. After a survey of dozens of couples, the big 3 items that showed up over and over began with "give little gifts". Surprise each other with flowers, candy, a card, or other gift. Do it often. Do it for no particular reason. Do it because you love each other and thought it would be nice to show it with a gift.






9. Be available. The second of the "big 3" was "take time for each other". Schedule time to walk and talk, go for drives in the country, go to dinner and see a movie together. Dozens of couples ranked time together as the most critical component in keeping romance and passion alive.






10. Be physical. This is about sensuality perhaps more than sexuality. Couples talked about the importance of scents, of candles and flowers and walks on the beach. They talked about making love, but mostly they talked about back rubs and holding hands, and creating memories. They talked about getting dressed up and going out, and they talked about skinny-dipping. They talked about being playful and finding their own way. You can do this!






Someone has said, "Life is what happens while you were making other plans." Romance is about real life, not about dreams and fantasies of the perfect partner, someday on a Pacific island. Romance and passion are about taking time to enjoy the company of the person you love. Have fun. Do it today!

at moments like this


Wednesday, January 20, 2010

And not trying to make up for the mistake but you try to convince yourself that she

means everything and you want nothing to do with me but come on baby she looks
just like me. Read the signs or at least the facial features cause I was your first, your
only,
the prototype and she´s just a duplicate and you can never make copies without first consulting the blueprint-Alysia harris

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

01/19/10

Entering in this class room sitting in this seat of insecurities
I wonder does everybody feel the way I do
 I mean what do they think when they look at me
am I to fat
to bright
is my hair crazy
 or maybe they think I'm pretty
 and they look at me admiring.
 when I look at this person next to me I'm wondering does he feel these same insecurities does she feel like no one will accept her apart of wants to hear people thoughts but u know what they say the truth hurts and truly my feelings get hurt easily so as I sit in this seat of insecurities I will never no the answer well there's the bell time to enter the halls of uncertainty

Sunday, January 17, 2010

And sometimes I wish I could sleep 4eva because in my dreams he loves me :(

Saturday, January 16, 2010

beyonce


ok so beyonce im tryna look past the fact that they said u wroship the devil
because truly yours songs get me through alot

one day

Nd today instead of wakin up I woke up
 nd realized time dnt stop nd.wait 4 pain nd pain does fade away in time
 budd realizing it dnt make it the truth
every day I fall so low that my heart forget to hurt
yea I wanna b ok budd I'm not ok
 nd I.try to b happy budd misery is a thief nd takes it away
730days I've been hurtin in those 2years feel like eternity
 nd I wonder everyday why I fail so hard 4 u
 nd neva got back up again ur my weakness my constant reminder of pain
..my desperation ..my depression my heart beat my reason to not smile I block my love 4 u out wit my distraction nd all those the distraction do is send me straight back to u
 my day will come wen you will not b my breath takin pain my heart breakin love song nd my neva gonna love again
 budd intill that happens I jus pray 4 jus one day u dnt cross my mind nd everything doesn't remind me of u nd I dnt cry nd the pain doesn't hurt the way it did b4 nd truly then I will b ok

t.i


ok so i truly believe we r gona get marry one
day we jus gotta get rid of that baby mama of urs
o how i wanna b the red carpet

my xscape from the world


music

the ex-factor

so i talked to my ex today wow i guess thats what every girl dreds well i atleast i did so many emotions so much anger build up so much love still there ppl ask me how could u love him do u even no what love is your to young 2 UNDERSTAND do u even no the tru meanin bud i understand jus fine he told me he miss nd that he still cared etc etc budd im smarter than that nd i kno that simply there jus words im not gonna lie i am sad bcuz apart of me wants to run back jus forget the past  and pretend it doesnt exist

budd then mi heart rewinds the time back nd i remeber the pain the disappointments
the tears those lonely nights full of no phone calls them hopingg and praying he didnt forget about me
nd then i realize truly i cant go back which makes things wrost to no that foreva we will depart from eachova
to no that i gotta b smarter than this... hurts cuz sometimes i wanna b a dummy nd b with him again

budd tonite ill forget everything the hurt the pain the wishin those things jus dont exist  nd jus simply have this one
night to enjoy his conversation like old times nd at that very moment nothing else matters

this womens worth



nd sometimes i truly forget that i am worth more then what i thought even though i get my my mind twisted around what i should b gotta b nd what ppl tell me to be i am foreva the best i could b so for today ima look past that nd look in my soul nd see this womens worth

o to be in one of these pictures upon the wall one day

thoughts






Nd sleepless night are wat I'm use 2

Tears fallin that's all I kno
. I'm tired man so tired somebody release me I'm screamin can nebody hear me
nd not jus the scream budd the pain inside the scream..
 The hurt all the tragic memories ..
plz dnt ask 4 my love cuz I can't give it
 plz dnt cry wit me I have enough tears 4 da both of us
 I'm hurtin nd slowly fallin..fallin nd quickly hurtin
..why can't he love me again
 why can't my dad c that I am worth more than wat he thinks
 nd y can't I look in da mirror nd see this beautiful diaster
 inside I'm cryin wit a constant smile on my face
I want my old heart back nd my pure soul
..my mind only remebers the wrost cuz the pain last longer
..I need 2 b stronge I fall easily break easily how can I make myself believe I'm beautiful..